A little background: in 2008 I took it upon myself to set out on the dating scene to try and find “The One”. As you can probably tell from the fact that I am doing this blog, I didn’t find him. The experience allowed me to realize what I wanted out of a relationship. I had some really high moments and some extremely low ones but nevertheless, I learned a lot about men and myself in the process.
If I had to pick three words that describe me they would be: organized, focused and humorous. Lately, I have let school take all the focus in my life, and I know that is not healthy. With that, I have decided to delve into this new experience and change the way I’ve been doing things.
I like the idea of the comfort zone divas because when it comes to dating, my comfort zone is as narrow as narrow can be. I date the same exact type of man each and every time. Trust me when I say he is the same guy, from the way he looks, to his personality, to the type of job he has. It’s kind of scary. This time around, I want to look beyond my comfort zone and give someone who I would normally over-look a chance.
I plan to accomplish the goal of getting 30 dates my pushing myself to go out twice a week, and once a month I have to try something new. I’m going to be trying new activities because I’ve come to the conclusion that if you keep doing the same things you will get the same results.